[CommanderSock]

hwacker wrote:

So YOU middle easterners like to go after the "White Canadian girls" Eh ?

I guess there is something wrong with the girls from your neck of the woods?

Glad you pointed that out to us, We'll (White Canadian Guys) will have to make note of that so we make the same mistake.

I'm not from the middle east. I've never even been there (I've never been to Asia or Africa). I have absolutely no affiliation other than a few friendships from that part of the world.

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Glad you pointed that out to us, We'll (White Canadian Guys) will have to make note of that so we make the same mistake.

Indeed, keep religion out of your politics, don't enforce morals with an iron fist, and you won't make that mistake.

[hwacker]

CommanderSock wrote:

hwacker wrote:

So YOU middle easterners like to go after the "White Canadian girls" Eh ?

I guess there is something wrong with the girls from your neck of the woods?

Glad you pointed that out to us, We'll (White Canadian Guys) will have to make note of that so we make the same mistake.

I'm not from the middle east. I've never even been there (I've never been to Asia or Africa). I have absolutely no affiliation other than a few friendships from that part of the world.

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Glad you pointed that out to us, We'll (White Canadian Guys) will have to make note of that so we make the same mistake.

Indeed, keep religion out of your politics, don't enforce morals with an iron fist, and you won't make that mistake.

I'll keep whatever I like in or out of MY politics, and MY morals are just that, MINE.

[Canadaka]

hwacker you are offering nothing contructive in this thread, please stop posting in it.

[CommanderSock]

hwacker wrote:

I'll keep whatever I like in or out of MY politics, and MY morals are just that, MINE.

They are. I cannot argue against that.

As long as you do not go out of your way to make others miserable which I'm assuming you don't, you can believe whatever ideology you fancy.

[CommanderSock]

ManifestDestiny wrote:

A job at Best Buy??? can we all say liberal elitist???


CKA has its own social worker commandersock

ManifestDestiny wrote:

You are a perfect example why the immigration process should be much more stringent. And not let in freaks like you!!!

ManifestDestiny wrote:

This whole comment is just racist. What is he your pet project.

Do you understand how hypocritical you are?

First you slam my comments as elitist, and then you lambast immigration Canada for letting someone who is trying to integrate in Canadian culture, has a job, and is interested in volunteering. Then you call him a freak?

I'm sorry, am I the only one who sees something wrong with this?

Must I be a liberal elitist social worker (I am neither of these btw) to see something wrong with the whole picture?

[dino_bobba_renno]

I'm not trying to be critical or anything but you're coming across a bit like Marvin the Paranoid Android off of The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.

I think in today’s day and age it's hard to meet new people with which whom you develop a lasting friendship. Most of you're friends are going to be either people whom you went to school with or some of the people you work with. Other than that I find most people just don't have the time or interest in developing new relationships which are on a deeper level than a simple casual acquaintance.

In short what I'm trying to say is that it's not just you, it's kind of just the way our society is now a days.

You mentioned maybe seeking out counseling and that might be a good idea. Some times issues like these can be tied into your self esteem so it probably wouldn't hurt. At worst at least you'd have someone who you talk to about this issue and talking about your problems all ways seems to help lift some of the anxiety associated with them.

One thing you should keep in mind is that you're probably not the only person out there who feels this way. It's easy to get into the mind set that it's just "you" and that you're only person who feels this way when in fact it's actually a common problem.

Go out and join some groups, get on a chat line, take up a hobby and join a club etc etc. You'll meet people but keep in mind it takes years to develop the type of relationship you're looking for. And yes get some counseling, once you get yourself into a rut of feelings like this it's hard to pull yourself out of it with out some help.

[hwacker]

Canadaka wrote:

hwacker you are offering nothing contructive in this thread, please stop posting in it.

I was adding to this thread until it was pointed out his racist comments on “white Canadian girls”

Then he can add for me to keep MY religion out of MY politics.

When did I bring religion into this thread?

I get reamed for comments all the time, his posts were over the line regarding “white Canadian girls” it sounded like they were the easy ones to get for the middle easterners and I don’t like that.

[CommanderSock]

hwacker wrote:

I was adding to this thread until it was pointed out his racist comments on “white Canadian girls”

Then he can add for me to keep MY religion out of MY politics.

When did I bring religion into this thread?

I get reamed for comments all the time, his posts were over the line regarding “white Canadian girls” it sounded like they were the easy ones to get for the middle easterners and I don’t like that.

Your overt racism is making you paranoid about other's motives or intentions. How about, homealone, get yourself a Canadian girlfriend. Is that better?

[hwacker]

CommanderSock wrote:

hwacker wrote:

I was adding to this thread until it was pointed out his racist comments on “white Canadian girls”

Then he can add for me to keep MY religion out of MY politics.

When did I bring religion into this thread?

I get reamed for comments all the time, his posts were over the line regarding “white Canadian girls” it sounded like they were the easy ones to get for the middle easterners and I don’t like that.

Your overt racism is making you paranoid about other's motives or intentions. How about, homealone, get yourself a Canadian girlfriend. Is that better?

lets see

I'm suprised you don't hang out with people from the Chinese community. Many of them are active club goers and many of them also make friends with Koreans and Filipinos and date white Canadian girls. Maybe you could try and make some friends from your community?

If I posted that you know I’d be walking up to the noose.

[CommanderSock]

hwacker wrote:

lets see

I'm suprised you don't hang out with people from the Chinese community. Many of them are active club goers and many of them also make friends with Koreans and Filipinos and date white Canadian girls. Maybe you could try and make some friends from your community?

If I posted that you know I’d be walking up to the noose.

Italians and Iranians are white. Iranians are the original Aryans. Hitler took the concept from there and screwed it up, and now there's white christian fellows who run around calling themselves Aryan. Pfft. Fakers!

Therefore telling an Iranain, that many of his compatriots at this age group who grew up in Canada also have inner circles in the [gino community (italian, greek persian, macedonian, bulgarian, russian)] isn't racist. It's observationist.

It's a suggestion. But he pointed out he didn't travel 20000km to mingle with Iranians, so what better way to get started than finding himself a Canadian girl. He could mingle in her circle of friends. Maybe not.

[homealone]

For those who thought being alone is equal to being weak, sorry to disappoint but I have seen a lot worse than what you have got in your sleeves. Where I am coming from and what I have gone through has made my skin thicker than that. I am a realist and I witness many (Canadians included) have the same problem. They just don't suffer from solitude as much as I do because of cultural differences perhaps. Heck, it's a nice weekend, do you think everywhere else in the world people are spending their sweet time behind their keyboards proving each other wrong on the internet ? So just to clarify, I am probably one of the few who have the time to waste and big enough balls to speak up.

To the "go-home" fellow: I sincerely love this country, I contribute my share to the society and I am grateful for what it has offered me so far. I am trying to find ways to improve my situation. Just to make things clear for you.

To that moron from the south who thinks whoever seeks counseling should be a freak. Let me repeat again, you are a moron PERIOD.


I spent some time reading some other pages of this forum. The sheer hypocrisy in some of those posts and the answers I read here is ludicrous. There were many complains about how immigrants have their own inner communities and don't try to integrate yada yada. I would like to just point out the irony that the reason is perhaps not the lack of desire on their part, but because maybe more often than not, those who have been here a bit longer choose to not go out of their ways the slightest bit to let them in.

To answer the comments about Canadian (white) girls: No one suggested that Canadian girls are easy. They, at least the ones I have met, are not. BTW get over your presumptions that all middle easterns want to do is banging the white chicks. It's simply not the case.

[ziggy]

Homealone.The counseling is a good idea,nothing weak about it.

I live a pretty solitude life myself but am very comfortable with my own company,it's not for everyone though.

As for immigrants,we in Canada are all immigrants or descendants of them so no worries there.

Good luck at any rate,hope things work out for you.

[Breeze]

Homealone, Ziggy brings up a really good point that we in Canada are all immigrants or descendants of them...same as many countries. You will find your 'way'. I think a lot of people gave some really good suggestions on places to go, clubs to join. Tweak on your interests and choose to explore those which interest you most and above all, leave yourself open to be the first to approach people with like interests and don't get frustrated when some folks don't take you up on it. Somewhwere in the mix someone will and friendships will form.


Have you taken any college or university courses; it is a good place to meet others while at the same time, learn more about things that intrigue you?. All in all, it is good.

[stratos]

Find a sport that you like and see if there is a local team you can join.

[Dayman]

join myspace. haha