ShepherdsDog wrote:
Strutz wrote:
You have GOT to be kidding me...
What's next... no more grades?
Too late, as that's already happened. In my son's school division(not sure if it's all of Saskatchewan) their report cards have 3 letters. They represent these 3 levels - Does not meet expectations, Approaching expectations and Meets expectations. There is no exceeds expectations. Brought to you by the caring left wing, because when everyone has been conditioned to be too stupid to think or do for themselves they will take 'care' of us.
A similar situation to BC. All the reports cards are the same. The girls all get "Meeting Expectations" and the boys all get "Meeting Expectations" except for Listening, where they get "Approaching Expectations." There's no assessment happening there at all.
I coach kids soccer--U8 and U6. You do get overly competitive coaches and it can be an issue (though it's
way worse in hockey). I'm not trying to turn everyone into an English Premier League player. My focus is to instill a life-long love of the game like I have. At this age it's about skills development and coordimation. (And it's not the Canasdian Soccer Assosciation that told me that, but a special clinic we had by some
Italian development coaches).
But it doesn't matter if we keep score or not for my U8 boys.
They know what the score is, regardless. It matters to them if they win or lose. If you don't compete against the other team,
you are not playing soccer. You're playing something but it ain't soccer. They should make them change the name.
Winning and losing is a part of life. And part of the skill you develop is how to learn from a loss (most kids are already pretty good at "coping with winning"

). I'll never forget when my U8 boys lost the final of a tournament they were in. They'd already lost to the team during the round-robin. They knew this team was good, and so they went in and put everyhting into it...and still lost. It was tough. But a good life lesson "No matter how hard you may try in life, boys, you are still all LOSERS. Now get out of my sight.". OK, what I really said was hopefully alittle more inspirational than that, and we it took a while but we did end up beating that team during a regular season match later--because they were unprepared and we were still driven to prove ourselves. You couldn't wipe the smiles off those kids' faces after the game.