[raydan]

My son got bullied at school too and all I could think about at the time was to tell him to defend himself. He certainly has the size and weight advantage but like me, he's a pacifist.

One day though, the bully bullied too far and crossed the line. My son picked him up by the front of his shirt and slammed him against the lockers. The bully actually peed in his pants.

The principal told me all this and could hardly stop laughing. Seems he had told my son the exact same thing I'd told him. He told me my son was suspended for a day, and then he congratulated him.

Of course, my son never got bullied again, ever.

[Choban]

Brenda wrote:

Fighting will NOT cut it when you are a girl.

Tough talk from the males here who took care of their bullies, but it won't help a girl.

Have you been in a high school recently, the girls fight more often than the guys these days, Like I said, she's getting punched anyways, what harm in punching back.

[Brenda]

Choban wrote:

Brenda wrote:

Fighting will NOT cut it when you are a girl.

Tough talk from the males here who took care of their bullies, but it won't help a girl.

Have you been in a high school recently, the girls fight more often than the guys these days, Like I said, she's getting punched anyways, what harm in punching back.

Omg...
HELLOOOOO
It won't help a girl to fight back, she will be bullied only more! Open your damned eyes okay?


All that tough talk "I punched him in the nuts and I was never bullied again"... Girls don't work that way! Girls are vicious, mean, use mindgames. Guys are simple, prove you are tougher and you won. You ain't going to get away with that with girls, sorry.

[ziggy]

Oh how painfully true!

Brenda wrote

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All that tough talk "I punched him in the nuts and I was never bullied again"... Girls don't work that way! Girls are vicious, mean, use mindgames. Guys are simple, prove you are tougher and you won. You ain't going to get away with that with girls, sorry.

I've seen enough cat fights to know how vicious the kitteh's can be.

[Choban]

There appears to be no solution for females,
I still say boy or girl , stand up for yourself. Sounds to me like that's what this girl is doing by going public. Standing up for yourself doesn't nessesarily mean fighting I guess.
But my eyes are open, hence my quote about girls fighting more often than boys these days.
I used to deliver supplies to schools and I can tell you in my last couple of years there I saw more girls going at it than guys.