DrCaleb wrote:
I quit about a year and a half ago, after having a small stroke. Cold turkey. You can quit cold turkey, if you have a good enough reason. I can recall coughing on second hand smoke as a small child in the back of my Dad's '63 Dodge Monaco. I didn't start smoking until I left my parents house, not realizing I had become addicted to the second hand smoke all my life.
Both my parents smoked, and when each of them died from smoking related illness, it wasn't a good enough reason for me to quit, even though I knew I should. But losing the feeling in the left side of my body for about 10 minutes did the trick for me.
I dropped the smokes right then, and never looked back. The excuses your sister is giving are BS. Nicotine is a depressant, so having a smoke just brings her up to feeling 'normal' again. It 'relaxes' you because you feel like shit, and only calms the craving. She'll only gain weight if she replaces the nicotine craving with something else like 'food'.
No one ever died from not smoking. It's not that scary. A couple days of feeling cranky, then 6 months or so wanting a smoke whenever you see someone with one. Then you start to wonder what the fuss was all about. Remember, the first symptom most people get that they have heart disease is they drop dead on the spot. So it can never be too early to quit smoking.
I am working on quitting. I have been cutting down for 3 weeks preparing to just stop on coming saturday. Wish me luck.