[tritium]

CMF wrote:

First:
My family and I spent a lot of time, thousands of dollars on travel and arrangements and a great deal of effort to get my wife into Canada. The Canadian system and law has demoralized not only me but every single person in my family. We are experiencing a depression and sickness as a result of this. We will be quitting our jobs if not fired as a result of our deep depression, and apply for social assistance (welfare). Who is now paying for all of us? You and the rest of tax payers who do not care and do not question the government with its unjust law.

o.k. now you lost what little credibility this thread had to start with.

Going on welfare because you can't cope with everyday issues.

That alone is a good reason she left you. You blame the Canadian Gov't for your problems and not yourself.

Nobody forced you into getting married, and it's not Canada's fault for your poor choice.

CMF wrote:

Second:
Marriage is sacred. Other countries and cultures value family, marriage commitment and the statement below:

“I shall take you to be my wife/husband, to have and behold from this day on, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; until death do us part.”

In Canada, you basically lie in all the parts. In Canada you can walk away from your marriage commitment anytime you fill to do so.

Welcome to the 21st Century Sir.

A wife is not property, once you are married.. that's it. I know a devote Catholic or Muslim may have a difference of opinion on that.

Maybe in the 1920's or later when women rights were limited. But the last time I looked at a calendar, I swore it was 2008.

CMF wrote:

In other countries you can't unless the court decides.

In other countries, what other countries?? Saudi Ariba, Dubai, Iraq, Iran.

Are you Muslim. That would explain alot. The women scorned your manhood, no wonder your depressed and pissed off. Your balls have shriveled up to pea size.

Sorry no Sharia Law in Canada (yet), you can't whip her into submission.

CMF wrote:

In my case and Abdulla's case, my fraudulent wife and the fraudulent wife of Abdullah walked away from their marriage commitment as they wished to do so.

Those spouses who walk away are not the main guilty people. It is the law of Canada that encourages them to do so!

With all respect and apology to all animals, if Canada's law doesn't change, the population of dogs in Canada will be greater than the population of human beings (if it is not greater now).

Hey, well according to you, you let one more dog in. Maybe next time you will get a shorter leash.

[CMF]

Why should I stay here to get a shorter leash?

Canada's population is droping; in order to increase the population, the Canadian government invites all criminals to join the party in Canada. Canadians do not realize that while Canada might have brought a criminal into canada (Population + 1), Canada is going to lose an honest caring family, my family (population - 6). Has Canada gained any? Yes, Canda gained 1 criminal and lost 6 caring tax payers. Why should we stay in Canada while working hard and paying our taxes on time, and at the end, Canada gives all the taxes collected from us to the fraudulent people?

Good for the rest of the tax payers feeding the dogs.

[hwacker]

CMF don't worry about tritium he totes around so much excess baggage he needs a trailer to carry it around. Anybody that boasts about being married 3 times should not be giving advice about said subject.

[CMF]

When in Canada, sponsored spouses can leave their husband/wife as they please anytime they wish, Canada should not force the "spousal sponsor" to support someone who is not his/her spouse. If Canada would tell me that I have sponsored an "adult" (doesn't matter brother, sister, spouse or friend), then that would have been fine, but Canada told me to bring my "wife," my "spouse" and that I am a "spousal" sponsor. Canada should change the "spousal sponsorship" to "general sponsorship" or "adult sponsorship." Or rathar than any sponsorship, have the adult spouse or adult relative apply for immigration themselves rather that sponsorship. Can someone tell me how I can bring this issue to the government?

[tritium]

hwacker wrote:

CMF don't worry about tritium he totes around so much excess baggage he needs a trailer to carry it around. Anybody that boasts about being married 3 times should not be giving advice about said subject.

Acutally hwacker, only 2 times..

This guy is complaining about signing a sponsorship and his wife left him.

1. we are only hearing one side of the story.
2. yes I had 2 ex-wives and both were immigrants, I sponsored them into Canada.
3. this guy is acting as if a marriage certificate is like a car note. The wife is just property to CMF.

Personal view, get over it. Your wife was obviously not happy in the relationship and left, for whatever reason, immigration, lousy sex.. who knows.

You got scammed, quick crying about it and move on.

Learn from your experience and move on...

[Brenda]

CMF wrote:

When in Canada, sponsored spouses can leave their husband/wife as they please anytime they wish, Canada should not force the "spousal sponsor" to support someone who is not his/her spouse. If Canada would tell me that I have sponsored an "adult" (doesn't matter brother, sister, spouse or friend), then that would have been fine, but Canada told me to bring my "wife," my "spouse" and that I am a "spousal" sponsor. Canada should change the "spousal sponsorship" to "general sponsorship" or "adult sponsorship." Or rathar than any sponsorship, have the adult spouse or adult relative apply for immigration themselves rather that sponsorship. Can someone tell me how I can bring this issue to the government?

I don't want to burst your bubble, but ANYONE can apply for immigration. I can tell, I did, and I don't have relatives that helped me out. My husband and I (and kids) applied for our own visa.
I don't think you can blame anybody else than yourself for your naivity... Sorry...

Btw.. I could sponsor my parents, brothers, cousins if I wanted. But I won't.

[CMF]

Maybe I can't convey my point, can anybody else convey it?

First of all, it is a Canadian issue, USA has already passed conditional establishment law for sponsored people to prevent fraud;

Second of all, I would like to tell the government that everyone over 18 years of age in Canada is an adult and can walk away from the sponsorship agreement if they wish so from Day 1. When there is no such thing as sponsorship agreement and everyone is an "adult" why there is a sponsorship agreement based on marriage? People with the name of marriage come to this country and do not even go home from the airport they arrive in. Why does the government force the sponsor to take sponsorship of a so-called spouse which has no definition in Canada?

[Brenda]

Who's talking about the US?

Tell, sweets... WHY would you want to sponsor ANYONE into Canada, when there are several other ways to come to this country?
As fas as I am concerned, they get rid of the whole family-class application process, including spousal sponsorship.

The government does NOT force you into anything.
It was YOUR choice, like everything you do in life is your own choice. You could have chosen to live in her country.

Again, don't blame the government for your problems, and don't expect them to solve your problems. Get a goddamn grip and move on. If you had read everything thouroughly before you started the application, you would have known this. Even I did.

[tritium]

I see what you are saying with regards to Canadian law.

Quote:

Congress passed the Immigration Marriage Fraud Act in 1986 in response to controversy over so-called sham marriages. For a couple who have been married less than two years, the law allows the status of "conditional resident." Interviews are conducted after two years and, if officials deem the marriage to be genuine, the immigrant receives permanent resident status.

Nevertheless, get over it move on.

[CMF]

I hope that the Canadian people read what you said and question the Canadian government. Does any Canadian know how I can be in touch with the government authorities regarding this issue?

[tritium]

CMF wrote:

I hope that the Canadian people read what you said and question the Canadian government. Does any Canadian know how I can be in touch with the government authorities regarding this issue?

http://www.cic.gc.ca/English/department ... /index.asp

e-Mail

You may send comments to the Honourable Diane Finley at Minister@cic.gc.ca.

Mail

Please write to:

The Honourable Diane Finley, P.C., M.P.
Citizenship and Immigration Canada
Ottawa, Ontario
K1A 1L1

[Brenda]

Do you need to be a "Canadian" to answer that question? Holy Christ

[Brenda]

For one that feels so terribly neglected by the government, you haven't really tried hard to solve your problems yourself, right?

The CIC page has all the answers, you should know that, you have been there before...

[TattoodGirl]

CMF wrote:

I hope that the Canadian people read what you said and question the Canadian government. Does any Canadian know how I can be in touch with the government authorities regarding this issue?

Oh For Gods Sake!!! Your wife left you...it happens all the time...women have freedoms here and by your posts you seem to think that a wife is a piece of property...soooo that leads me to believe you probably arent the nicest husband in the world. Was this a pre-arranged marriage?...oh why am i asking, it probably was. You mentioned earlier, certain countries 'dont allow this'...well here is an idea, Go to those countries. Here is a tip for anyone thinking about coming to Canada, bone up on what it is like here. Now piss off...whiny bitch

[tritium]

humm, looking for wife number 3 LOL

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