I hear where you're coming from Bodah.
A couple of years back I was riding the LRT in Edmonton. One day while waiting for my chance to board the train, I noticed an elderly couple (I'm guessing both were 80+) behind me. I stepped aside to allow them to board first. As I did that a thirtysomething jerk, in construction boots and hardhat, pushed by and nearly knocked the woman over. Then he stops just inside the door, with his overstuffed backpack hanging-out. The bell sounds to signal the doors are about to close (which they would've except for his protruding backpack). I put my hand on his shoulder and said,
"Excuse me, can you move ahead", as there was lots of room in front of him. He pretended to ignore me, so I grabbed both of his shoulders and moved him (ungently) four feet forward and three feet to the right. I then held the door while the elderly couple boarded. As I entered, he said,
"Excuse YOU". I then lit into him (verbally) which had the dual benefit of silencing him and making the more-fit, seated, passengers aware that there was still two elderly riders standing. Two passengers gave up their seats, which Mister ConstructionJerk tried to take, before I put a hand on his shoulder and said,
"NO!"
I wanted to drop him (badly) but the fact that I was wearing a jacket with my (then) employer's name on it, made me realize my actions
might reflect negatively on the company.
HamiltonGuyo wrote:
well sorry but mayby your not a student whos only was of getting home is the bus.
I ride a bus every day with at least 30 other kids plus adults. busses are so full of kids that they pass your stop and you have to wait another 10 minutes for another bus. So I know what it feels like to be jostled on a bus. If you don't want it, don't ride buses right after or before school gets out.
When I was attending NAIT, my backpack was usually stuffed with 35 - 40 kgs of books. I never had a problem with taking the backpack from my shoulders to a slung position when getting on a bus or elevator. That despite the fact that carrying more than 20 kgs causes painful aggravation to my back injuries.
I guess some people don't think courtesy and common-sense (can or) should be abandoned for personal convenience.