[Bodah]

This is for all the men out there who stand by and watch while a women gets tossed around like a rag-doll in public by their boyfriends/husbands and do nothing about it.

They all make me fucking sick their all sad excuses of a human beings, to me these people that stand by and watch are no better than the fucking gorrilla doing this type of thing to the person he "loves".

Today at work, I was on my break to the side of the building is were the smokers go, nearby is a parking lot for employees.

I saw this shit mobile pull in nearby with two passengers infront, it look like to me they were slapping each other. I thought they were just fucking around but was actually happening as I found out later he was beating her and she was defending herself.

He throws the car in reverse her door pops open and whether she was tossed out by this caveman or she jumped out I dont know but what I do know she hit the pavement hard, and her head was inches away from being run over by the front wheel.

She got up and ran in the opposite direction, screaming get away from something to that effect. This all happened very quickly but that is when I knew this was not two people fooling around.

There were 3 men, I mean 3 cowards between me and the girl. The guy at this point put the car in park and gave chase. I ran past this three guys saying something to the effect why the fuck are you just standing here.

By the time I got to her he had her by the sweather and was pulling around and man handling her. As I approached he let go, I told him to get the fuck away from her and stood between them. He of course is saying things like well she hit me first, I said get the fuck away I dont care if she hit you first, she's obviously terrorized of you. At this point he's verbally threatening me. I told him if wants to hit someone he can hit me.

I look back at our 3 superheroes on the grassy knoll and they are still standing there watching like it some fucking sporting event. I walked up with her to the bench sat down, she was balling her eyes out. She must of been no more than 19 80 lbs soaking wet. She was bruised and scratched.

Her boyfriend came back to try to get between us again, told him to get the fuck away once again, more insults and threats from him etc, etc. Thats when I got up and brought her inside in the little restaurant there.

At this point these 3 super heroes are gone.

He got into the restaurant were we were at, the owner kicked him out and locked the door, at this point the security guards showed up. Told his co-worker to call the police, this is where she went crazy because she didn't want to face him in court, "It will piss him off more" she said, it was so sad to see. What we didn't know is that someone a couple of floors up already called the cops.

They eventually showed up, I gave the security guard my number incase the cops wanted a statement. I never got a call.

What pissed me off the most out of this whole thing was the 3 guys that stood there and watched. I've heard of this sort of thing before, were people stand by while some innocent person or someone that doesn't stand a chance gets pummelled and people do nothing. Of course I knew it was possible but I never thought I would witness something like that. I was so disgusted.

I don't know these guys personally but the next time I see them, there going to get an earfull from me.

If you every see someone in trouble in a situation like this, if your life doesn 't seem likes in immediate danger. For god sake be a fucking man and doing something.

[hwacker]

I knocked a dick on his ass at a Wendys one night, same sorta thing people watching at a guy slapping a girl around. I gave him one chance and he started to lip off, so I made his lip big and bloody.

I also gave his EXGF a drive to a friend’s house.

Guys that do this are cowards also girls that don't see the signs of these aholes are blind and will have real trouble seeing with them all swollen and black in the future.

[BartSimpson]

On three occasions in my life have I stood up for women who were being beaten by their significant others. In all three cases the coward ran away simply because someone stood up and said "No."

In one of the cases the guy I was standing up to looked like freaking Paul Bunyan to me and I fully expected to have some problem in dealing with him and then he just ran away.

Sadly, in one case the woman refused to press charges against the creep when the police showed up.

A note of caution: when standing up for the woman, don't turn your back on her because you never known when the victim may decide to "stand by her man" and attack you to defend the cretin.

[Banff]

BartSimpson wrote:

On three occasions in my life have I stood up for women who were being beaten by their significant others. In all three cases the coward ran away simply because someone stood up and said "No."

In one of the cases the guy I was standing up to looked like freaking Paul Bunyan to me and I fully expected to have some problem in dealing with him and then he just ran away.

Sadly, in one case the woman refused to press charges against the creep when the police showed up.

A note of caution: when standing up for the woman, don't turn your back on her because you never known when the victim may decide to "stand by her man" and attack you to defend the cretin.

So true Bart .
There are many times I have stood up to defend the girlfreinds and unless there is something obvious that warrants defending her I have come to a pretty close to total refusal to intervene . There are probably more things which would cause the girlfreind to turn on you than her abusive boyfreind ...it better be awfully obvious before I even do something as simple as make a comment to at least distract the abuse .

[canadian1971]

Well a friend of mine here in Calgary tried to stop a guy from beating a woman.....he got stabbed in the belly by the woman for his troubles. His philosophy now is Fuck em all feed em rice.

[Bodah]

canadian1971 wrote:

Well a friend of mine here in Calgary tried to stop a guy from beating a woman.....he got stabbed in the belly by the woman for his troubles. His philosophy now is Fuck em all feed em rice.

Until i get shanked in the gut,

I will keep on standing up for women that get stomped on by "men" that are twice their size.

[Arctic_Menace]

Story One:


Me and some friends were at a party at Lee's house a few years back, and there were these two guys who were smashed out of their minds fooling around with this chick. Whene ver they got too close, she's push them away gently. They were really drunk and after a while started to harass her. These guys were big, and I was scared, but approached them anyway. I told them that they had too much to drink and should leave this girl alone if she wanted to be.

Since they were drunk, they immediately start telling me to fuck off, mind my own business, you don't know her, etc. I told them that I really think that they should leave her alone, since they're drunk and she's clearly uncomfortable. One of them gets up and tells me that if I don't leave, someone(me) is gonna get hurt.

It was at this point that my pal Tom P stepped in. He's a pretty tall, muscular Irish man, who is very violent and can hold his own in a fight. He asked them: "Is there a problem here?" To which they replied: "It isn't your fucking business!"

Tom told that if they didn't leave now, they'd be thrown out. By this point a small crowd had formed, and two guys who I didn't know came up behind Tom, clearly backing him up. These drunk guys started yelling and started pushing Tom(which si the last thing you want to do), and within two minutes, Tom, myself, and about 4 other people finally got the people out of Lee's house.

So don't worry Bodah, there are still some people who will stand up and do something.






Story Two:



Earlier this year, some beef was brewing between my friend Alex and some of the poser-ass gangsters at my school. They were looking through his bag, so naturally he got pissed and told them not to touch his shit. So what do they say?

"What the fuck did you just say man?"

A few words are exchanged between them, and next thing I know, Alex has been pushed backwards into Zoey, who is tiny and has been flung down on our hard concrete steps. Instantly, my friend Max and I are on our feet standing between this one violent gangster and Alex and Zoey. We're holding him back while he's getting very angry and pushy. We're telling him to calm down, saying that there's no beef, and it's just words. It started to escalate until one of the teachers came through the doors, and everything stopped.

It was rather scary, because it was about to boil into a full-scale fight between the Eccentrics of Door Nine and the "Gangsters" of Door Nine. There were about 40 people in the area, and Max and I knew that we couldn't fight off 30 gangsters and protect Alex and Zoey at the same time.

It was ridiculous how it was only Max, myself and two good gangsters that I know who were trying to stop shit from going down.

[hwacker]

Gotta get a gun if you're dealing with "gangsters"

[Arctic_Menace]

Don't need one for these ones. They act all tough and shit, but need 100 people to back them up in a fight. That's not tough, that's called being a pussy.

[Mr_Canada old]

It's these types of people who deserve to be hanged.

[Tricks]

I completely agree Bodah. I fully expect something like this to happen one day when I am working. A while ago, we thought we had a pedophile in there. Good god, I nearly killed the fucker. I watched him for a good hour. Fortunately it was nothing.

[Snorkmaiden]

to you guys!!!

I've had to intervene from a distance. My best friend's ex bf didn't take the break-up very well so he started harassing my friend whenever he saw her somewhere. I lived in another town at the time but she always called me when she was in trouble and I called my ex to go make sure she was safe.

"Men" who beat women make me so effin angry....!!!!
*mutter mutter*

[xerxes]

hwacker wrote:

Gotta get a gun if you're dealing with "gangsters"

People like those are a waste of bullets.

[bootlegga]

My ex-GF dated an abusive asshole a decade ago. He beat her up, cut her, did all sorts of shit to her. When we first started dating and she told the stories and showed me the scars, they made me sick.

Fortunately for that asshole, he had long since died from a drug OD, but if he was still around, I would have beaten that piece of shit to an inch of his life. I was both repulsed and enraged by the things he had done to her.

Since then, I've been a big fan of stepping into to protect women in domestic abuse situations and a donor to the WIN house here in Edmonton.

[Clogeroo]

I'm not sure why would someone hit a lady. I never seen anyone do that here. But I have told people not to curse in front of them especially if they have children.