well, I mentioned "strong, both mentally and physically". And by that, I mean I like my men big... I rather find Kevin James (Doug Heffernan in the King of Queens) in my bed than George Clooney. Or Jarno Hams instead of Bryan Adams... But yea, they should be in shape... Can't be worn out too fast eh
Of course appearance is important. There is a certain type of person you find attractive. For some, that is overweight and for others its more anorexic.
What I found very funny, is that NOONE of the men posted in the J-Lo thread, telling she must have a fat ass now, posted here to be honest
