CanadianJeff CanadianJeff:
Let me ask you a basic question PA.
If these ghosts live on after death for so long why do they never seem to leave the building or house? I mean if your going to live for decades after death wouldn't you want to at least get out and explore a bit?
That and it's always struck me as odd that ghosts never seem to leave even the most basic of messages. I mean even if all I could do as a ghost was slam doors there is always morse code.
I'm not calling you a liar and I totally understand that you firmly beleive what you experienced with genuine but these things have always struck me as odd and I've never had a believer in ghosts come up with any good explanations for these things.
Generally speaking, a strong emotional attachment to a location is what keeps ghosts stuck in a specific location. Whether it's a house they spent their entire lives in and eventually died in, or a place where violent death occured as two examples. For others, it may be a case of feeling like there is "unfinished business".
At least that's the explanation I've heard.
As for interacting with their environment, it takes a LOT of energy for them to do so. It's not like they can physically close a door by pushing it shut with their hand. I've actually even learned this from personal experience when I've exited my physical body. I can't open or close doors. I can go through them but I don't because it can be extremely dangerous for someone that isn't highly skilled, or already dead
I know one night when I was in bed alone(my wife was visiting her parents) I very distinctly and audibly heard someone whisper my name in my ear. It kind'a freaked me out at first to be honest but I became intrigued by it all.
That's when I tried using out of body experiences in an attempt to make communication easier but I was never able to run into any when in that state.
What I was left with though was the impression they weren't there to scare me in any way, in fact, I think they liked us being there. The house had been built before the 20th century and it must have been something in its day. As the years went buy, successive owners let it slowly fall apart. When I bought it, we went to work fixing the place up to its former glory. I honestly believe that our resident ghosts were happy to see someone actually taking care of their home.
